Hectic Life of Me

Disclaimer: This is my POV and I'm writing in general for most women out there. It is not meant to be the same with everyone. Marriage is a blessing. It is a union of two hearts. It is a bond that hopefully will last forever. It is promise made fulfilled. Marriage is a merger of two becoming one. It is a huge leap with lots of responsibility. However, once a woman is married, she'll be single. She will be parted from her family and her siblings. She now only have her husband as her rock, her life-vest, her boat. She is to be lonely. She is separated. She will have to face new world, new changes that is alien to her. She is needed to adapt. For Asian countries, she is needed in the in-laws house. No one ever told you that it is lonely indeed when you are married. Unlike guys, women tend to leave their social life after they got married. When guys can still hang out with their friends, for women, the thought of spending time with friends when her family is at ...

“Shame on all such persons who talk about the failings of others and indulge in ridiculing them." (Qur’an, 104:1) O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful. (QS 49:12) The meanest person is usually your closest one. Frankly, I am not sure how they did it. It is hard to lie and to maintain one requires energy. I wouldn't be even bothered no maintain such facade in front of others, It is simply tiring and not worth your time. Surely you know that others knew about your true colours. So how can you keep a straight face with that knowledge? What is it for you? Did you get the satisfaction of being the first one to blurt out the wrongdoings of others? If that is so, you might want to reconsider your job. Be a policeman o...